Understanding Grief: The "Ball in a Box" Analogy and Its Impact on Mental Health
This post expands on my original blog about the “Ball in a Box” analogy by offering a deeper, client-informed perspective. While the original version explains how grief may shrink over time, this update explores an alternative truth many grievers relate to: the grief may stay the same size, but life grows around it. This nuanced reframing offers comfort, especially for those who feel protective of their grief or struggle with the idea of “moving on.”
Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA): The Invisible Battle for Autonomy in a World of Expectations
Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) is more than procrastination—it’s a nervous system response rooted in anxiety, trauma, and a deep need for autonomy. This post explores how PDA shows up in daily life, how it overlaps with rejection sensitivity, and what it means to truly support someone caught in the cycle of avoidance, shame, and overwhelm.
Brainspotting Therapy: A Deep Dive into Healing Trauma and Emotional Regulation
Brainspotting therapy is a powerful method for healing trauma, anxiety, and emotional distress by targeting deep brain processes. Unlike traditional talk therapy, Brainspotting helps the nervous system reprocess stored trauma for lasting relief. Learn how it works, its benefits, and how it compares to EMDR.
How Trauma Impacts the Body: An In-Depth Exploration of Mind-Body Healing
Trauma affects more than just the mind—it leaves a lasting imprint on the body. Dr. Bessel van der Kolk’s concept, “The Body Keeps the Score,” reveals how trauma is stored within our physiology, often manifesting as chronic pain, fatigue, and other health issues. By exploring the powerful connection between mind and body, and through integrative approaches like somatic therapy, individuals can begin to heal from trauma in a truly holistic way. Discover how addressing both mental and physical aspects of trauma can lead to lasting wellness and resilience.
