Understanding the Tapestry of Trauma Responses: A Deeper Dive
Trauma isn’t just about what happened—it’s about how your nervous system responded to a rupture in safety, trust, or connection. Many behaviors that seem confusing, frustrating, or even self-sabotaging are actually profound adaptations to distress. From emotional numbing to hypervigilance, people-pleasing to risk-taking, this article explores the nuanced spectrum of trauma responses and offers a compassionate reframing of these patterns. When we understand them as survival strategies—not flaws—we open the door to healing, self-trust, and deeper connection.
Decoding Self-Sabotage: Control and Fear of Failure
Self-sabotage can be a perplexing behavior. Why would we intentionally hinder our own success or happiness? While it may seem counterintuitive, self-sabotage often serves as a coping mechanism for fear of failure, providing a skewed sense of control over our circumstances. Pathways to Wellness: Insights from Francesca Wehr, LCSW Mental Health Counseling explores the complex interplay between self-sabotage, fear of failure, and the quest for control.
